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BEFORE YOU DIE

null Three months ago I met a Fat Brain named Ben Nemtin on a shuttle bus heading to Lake Tahoe for a Summit Series gathering. I was pleasantly surprised by a question he asked me only seconds after sitting down beside me and introducing himself.

“So what do you want to do before you die?”

Never a fan of small talk, I smiled at this question and instead of answering, I asked him if he had an idea of what he would like to do in his lifetime.

“Well, I’ve already accomplished 80 of 100 things I want to do before I die,” he answered.

This wasn’t any ordinary fellow sitting next to me. This was a Practical Genius who had created a list of 100 mutual lifelong dreams with a group of friends, including Jonnie Penn, Dave Lingwood, and Duncan Penn. Wanting more of out life than what college was offering them, they hit the road in a rented Winnebago and began crossing items off their list and helping strangers achieve their dreams at the same time.

Their epic six-year adventure eventually landed them a show on MTV and as of today, they have completed 80 items on their list, including playing basketball with President Obama and delivering a baby. Especially exciting is their most recent accomplishment, #19 on their list: “Write a bestselling book.”

What Do You Want to Do Before You Die? published on March 27th by Artisan Books. Ben sent me a copy and I soaked it up in one sitting. It’s vibrant, hyper-visual, and is full of beautiful artwork created by Kevin Brainard. And the best part is instead of just writing about their own accomplishments, which they could easily have done, they included many chosen from tens of thousands of submission answers to the question: “What do you want to before you die?”

I cried when I read this entry: “Before I die I want to let my English teacher know that she saved my life.”

I want to ask you the same question: What do you want to do before you die?

Here’s #1 on my list: Before I die I want to positively impact the lives of a million people.

If many of us have mutual quests, dreams, and aspirations, maybe we can collaborate and accomplish them together.

What’s on your list?

Posted Apr 16, 2012 Tagged under: fat brains, goals and goal setting, motivation, reflection

Pictures are pretty, but it’s memories that matter

Pool in Puerto Rico

I don’t know how it happened, but I recently lost my camera on my return from a family vacation to Puerto Rico. I probably took a hundred pictures on that trip and I have literally been sick to my stomach, as you can imagine, over this loss. I smiled this morning, though, when I came across this photo I had taken on my iPhone.

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Posted Jul 8, 2011 Tagged under: reflection, relationships, travel

Practical Genius Top 10 Lessons of 2010

1. Shut down.

The greatest lesson I’ve learned this year was the power of granting myself time for mental stillness. Carving out time to shut down for 30 minutes and tune inward does small wonders to sustain a healthy mind. Turn off the television, radio, and hand-held devices and allow yourself to physically and mentally chill. What you will quickly notice after doing this for 10 consecutive days is you will be sharper because of it. Solutions to problems will take shape in your mind, new ideas will reveal themselves, and you will also begin to enjoy greater intuitiveness. Remember, in order for your mind to create meaning it needs meaningful rest.

2. Find what you LOVE.

One of the greatest aspects of self-discovery is finding what you love. Many of us have ignored the yummy places within our hearts and minds and I have learned that if you commit to finding what you love and decide to make love to it, life as you know it changes. Ask yourself: what do you love? Is it innovation, fitness, technology, dancing, literature, travel, discovery, ideation, the environment or something as simple as food. What ever “it” may be, find “it”, act upon “it” and honor your love of “it” by investing the time to explore and enjoy “it.” As with all matters of the heart, you will know it when you find “it.”

3. Change it up.

Change is powerful and not as hard you think it is. This year I changed how I managed my time and what happened was life on every level began to change because of the direct impact of just shifting one particular aspect of it. So I want you to change it up a bit. This could mean changing how you manage your time, changing the furniture in your family room or changing what you eat – or even when you eat. It doesn’t matter which slice of your life you decide to change, just pick one aspect and commit to making the shift. When you commit to it, a domino effect for the better will happen. I promise, its powerful.

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Posted Dec 28, 2010 Tagged under: inspiration, lists, reflection

Be An Outsider

I’ve come to realize one of the greatest aspects of being an entrepreneur is you get away with being an outsider. What do I mean by outsider? An outsider is someone who doesn’t fit nicely into any particular box and lives life by her own rules regardless of how the outside world may view it. An outsider accepts her contradictions and goes one step further—she lives them on purpose. She takes the long way to church on Sunday mornings to check out the graffiti by local artists. She listens to Eminem on her way to speak at a woman’s conference and tosses rose pedals to Yemaya (goddess of the ocean) as she crosses bridges. I’ve always been, to some extent, an outsider but the difference today is I am getting away with it with little guilt or self-consciousness and a great deal of joy.

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Posted Nov 23, 2010 Tagged under: entrepreneurship, motivation, reflection

39 biggest lessons of the year

Today’s my birthday and rather than writing a cheesy birthday blog message I’ve decided to share the 39 biggest lessons I’ve learned this year.

  1. Intuition is your life vest.
  2. Your bottom line measurement should always be happiness.
  3. F.E.A.R is false evidence acting real.
  4. Rebellion works.
  5. The bigger the risk the greater the reward.
  6. Patience is golden.
  7. You are what you eat.
  8. Cats’ rock!
  9. Passion is infectious.
  10. Vision boards work.

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Posted Aug 16, 2010 Tagged under: celebration, lists, reflection

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